Ep.83/ HOW TO LET GO WHEN YOU DON’T WANT TO LET GO
Today we delve into the challenging process of letting go, especially when it feels impossible to do so. Many of us struggle with this, even when we know it's the right thing to do. This episode will guide you through understanding why letting go is difficult and provide actionable steps to help you move forward.
In This Episode, We Discuss:
Why Letting Go is Difficult: Understanding the emotional attachment and why it's hard to accept the end of a relationship.
The Importance of No-Contact: Treating no-contact like overcoming an addiction to help you move on.
Steps to Let Go:
Self-Reflection: Engage in introspection to understand your attachment through journaling, therapy, or talking to a trusted friend. Identify what emotional needs your ex fulfilled.
Acceptance: Recognise that the relationship no longer serves you positively and that staying attached only brings negative outcomes.
Emotional Regulation: Learn techniques such as deep breathing, journaling, and mindfulness to manage and regulate your emotions. These skills are crucial for future healthy relationships.
Reframing Thoughts: Challenge and reframe obsessive thoughts about your ex. Create a new narrative that supports your goal of detachment.
Building Self-Worth: Recognise your strengths, achievements, and qualities. Validate yourself rather than seeking approval from others.
Cultivating Independence: Engage in activities that boost your confidence and sense of autonomy. Try new things, learn new skills, and focus on personal growth.
Focusing on the Present: Practice daily mindfulness and meditation to stay in the moment and avoid dwelling on the past or worrying about the future.
Key Takeaways:
Letting go requires emotional work, not just intellectual understanding.
Self-reflection and acceptance are crucial first steps.
Developing emotional regulation and self-worth can help you build healthier future relationships.
Cultivating independence and staying present are key to moving forward.
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